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Crash Carts and Comfort Measures

August 16, 2021 by NurseTwain

How does one determine the end of another’s life? How does one know when the best option is really to let nature run its course and allow the body to naturally shut down? When do fervent prayers for a miracle need to be shifted into prayers for hope, strength, and healing in the years to come?

Questions like these are frequent in the hospital setting. Many patients come in for a slight pain or elective procedure and are diagnosed with terminal illnesses. Some never leave the hospital and others are readmitted shortly after discharge. Many patients do not fill out advanced directives before terminal events, making family decisions challenging and burdensome for the appointed surrogate who must make the above decisions.

Imagine a middle-aged woman being diagnosed with metastatic, stage IV cancer. She is a “frequent flyer” back and forth from the hospital to the nursing home. She is “call-light heavy” and asks for minor things every thirty minutes such as her pillow fluffed, right leg moved in the bed, or to be pulled up a couple more inches to the top of the bed. Then, imagine family issues as she has no advance directives, is borderline confused, and the family disagrees on the plan of care. It is a disaster.

Now, the patient has returned, each time getting progressively weaker and lethargic. She doesn’t call as much and staff is concerned because we know she is far from her baseline. Her prognosis, originally at one year, now at only a few weeks.

Discussions about hospice and comfort measures were repeatedly getting declined by family. The patient remained a full code as she was actively dying with her respirations becoming slower and labored, blood pressure in the 70s systolic, level of consciousness decreasing, and PO intake next to nothing for several days.

Nurses would sit outside of her room with a crash cart just watching her breathe and observing the fluctuating O2 sats. We realized at the end, that her family did not want to be the one to make the decisions about neglecting CPR and opting for comfort measures. Eventually, the doctor strongly encouraged and at roughly 14 days inpatient, actively dying, the patient was transitioned to comfort care.

This is not a story of simply ordering a DNR/DNI because staff didn’t want to participate in a code; it was a matter of the patient being under serious trauma and probably wouldn’t survive CPR alone, let alone intubation for the prolonged future. Media often portrays a false sense of CPR effectiveness and does not consider the trauma that comes along with compressions, defibrillation, and subsequent ventilation. In-hospital CPR survival- discharge rates on average are roughly 25% according to the NIH. The patient was dying, but her prognosis was originally set for several more months and the family kept repeating that “she had more time.” They held on to this hope in the midst of the patient’s rapid decline.

Speaking to patients about advanced directives before they are in these situations is so important. It was heartbreaking following this case for weeks with no progress and false hopes.

Until next shift,

Shania

Filed Under: patient stories Tagged With: advanceddirectives, comfort, hospice, hospital, medicalsurgical, medicine, nurse, nursetwain, nursing, patient, patientstories, patienttalk

Terminal Agitation

March 2, 2020 by NurseTwain

Terminal agitation. I have never heard of this term before until my last shift. A patient I had a week ago, who was admitted with a fall, died today after being placed on Hospice care. The previous week, the patient was not oriented to person, place, time, or situation, and was very restless. She was able to communicate, however inappropriately. She constantly wanted to get out of the bed, and never went to sleep. She had dementia and I thought this was a progression of her dementia. I found out on this past shift that this agitation was actually her quick decline to the end of her life.

Another nurse on the floor worked in Hospice care for several years and had a hint that this was terminal agitation. The patient was seen to be picking at the air and stated that she was seeing her late husband. I have never encountered these signs before and contributed them to hospital delirium and her baseline dementia. I could not believe that the next shift I had, was this same patient who was now comatose and passed within 24 hours after transitioning into Hospice care.

Until next shift,

Shania

Filed Under: patient stories Tagged With: hospice, hospital, nursetwain, nursing, patient, patienttalk, talk, terminalagitation

Death: You cannot doubt God

November 30, 2019 by NurseTwain

“What matters is not the meaning of life in general, but rather the specific meaning of a person’s life at a given moment” – Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl 

Working with many hospice families on the medical floor, there are so many stories that cannot be explained by science, alone. Each death is different, surprising, and often, beautiful. Supporting a grieving family as they wait and watch their loved one take their last breath brings me to the core of nursing care. No computer, no doctor, no book, and no prayer can comfort like the personal touch of the nurse.

I have seen oxygen saturations in the 70s jump to 100% as a family member walks in to say goodbye. I have seen patients who hang on until they find their last bit of closure whatever that may be before crossing over. I have seen obtunded patients open their eyes and use all of their remaining energy to say a few last words to their family members before closing their eyes for eternity. Death is and can be beautiful.

The first death I experienced was when I was still on orientation. It was a man who battled many years of cancer. He was literally skin on bones. His daughters and wife were at bedside, and it is the family that breaks your heart the most. They sat around his bed and talked about all of the memories that they shared together. They showed me a picture of him, a healthy 180lb man, now a 60lb man laying in the bed. Those are images you can’t forget.

Caring for Hospice patients and families is some of my favorite cases because of how real and genuine the emotions are. At the bedside, nothing else matters except the love and belonging the family has left.

Some families grieve with anger, some with prayer, some with thankfulness, and some with silence. Some patients wait for families to step out of the room before passing, some wait for a bath, some wait for a blessing, and some go suddenly.

It is crucial to maintain the compassion for each of these families. It is easy to appear too busy or even to become insensitive to these life events. The most important thing for palliative care and hospice is to simply be present. Sit down and listen to the family wishes and hopes. It is okay to cry with them, I often do. Cry, and then carry on. Focus on each patent encounter individually. One room at a time.

Death is a beautiful thing.

Until next shift,

Shania

Filed Under: patient stories Tagged With: death, god, hospice, nursing, palliative, patient, patienttalk

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